Going to a funeral reddit. The last few I went to I...
- Going to a funeral reddit. The last few I went to I feel the same way about funerals. If I go, I won't know anyone there/I'll be The only reason I might go these days is to "save face" but honestly I don't even care about that anymore. Stay long enough to be respectful, but don’t feel bad if you need to get out of there as quickly as possible. My neighbor died recently and her funeral is today. If she is soo distraught that she is in need of support and can't be supportive of your dad, if she is going there to be attention My best advice is to attend the funeral, if you can send her a living plant or something, and attach a note that says you are there for her and apologize for not being initially, send with the words "love and I messaged the other child (she's my age) because I also see her during Thanksgiving to give my condolences, and she asked if I was going to the funeral. I always understood it as you attend the visitation to support the family and the funeral to honor the deceased. If you feel like you should be there and that it’ll be a small funeral, follow your gut and go to the funeral. UPDATE 4. Since I am no longer religious, the only funeral events I am reasonably comfortable with are What is the proper response to someone telling you they’re going to a funeral? Archived post. Not all funerals are the same, but you should wear formal attire, at least a In our culture, funeral is only addressed as traumatic when it was not a natural death. I don’t mean that you should do this to score points—this isn’t a transaction—but that going to the funeral/memorial provides support, empathy, and comfort that flowers or a card don’t The reason I'm asking if it's ok not to go, is due to the fact I always get chewed out for not going to these things and not being there for said co-worker, when in reality I'm there if they need me, just not at the Is attending the funeral considered an intrusion on the family ( altho details of it were also posted in the message)? On the one hand, it feels like a show of support to the family but on the other hand, not I was at my grandpa's funeral and was tuning up my guitar to play a song while everyone else was in a room where the coffin was. There will be a lot of people who don't really know each other and others who have known each other their whole lives. I can't handle emotions well and I don't want to If you start planning your funeral now, you could probably figure out precisely what you want to do and then lock in the costs from today without ever having to worry about them going up, and can figure . Going to the funeral of someone you don't know or don't know well to support loved ones is really normal. The funeral director thinking I was just the entertainment made some Her funeral is on the 26th. Funerals are first and foremost a time of togetherness. I can remember when my grandfather died, several of my friends came to be supportive to Funerals do nothing that the deceased is going to be aware of and are just a ritualised way for people to deal with their loss. We use the term "मोक्ष" (salvation) very often when we refer to natural deaths. Funerals are especially annoying because in addition to the usual boredom of ceremonies in general, funerals are also unscheduled. People have to stop whatever they're doing and travel, sometimes My grandmother died last year over in Spain and when I asked what the dress code was going to be like because funeral in 38 degrees in mainland Spain is not really funeral wear, she said oh they don't do When nearly all the funerals I was going to were Catholic, I preferred to go to funeral masses over wakes. Funerals are ultimately more for the living than the dead since the dead don't seem to get any kind of benefit from them. nobody's obligated to go to a funeral just because anybody has passed. So if you were closer to a member of the family you should attend the visitation. Some funerals are very lively (no pun intended) while others are incredibly solemn. It's a place for the people who cared about someone to come together to express Just do your best and understand the worst part of her life right now is not going to be how you behave at her husband's funeral. Everyone deals with grief in their own way and if you don't want to attend the The funeral is this weekend, viewing on Friday, burial on Saturday. What is the correct attire nowadays and are suits and ties still mandatory? I am attending my uncles funeral next week and it will be the first funeral I will attend No obligations to do anything. I Replied Then Go Ask #foryou #fyp #reels #viral #redditstorytime #redditposts #storytime #redditstories #reddit 24Y/O going to first funeral as as adult. She_s A Doctor And You_re Absolutely Worthless, My Dad Sneered At Dinner. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. I‘m going to the funeral, but am unsure of if I should bring the kids, or even ask if they want to come. I use to hang out with her daughter The wake is the funeral equivalent of when the news has been talking about war, mortgages going up, people having no jobs and then end talking about a litter of puppies being saved by a kid after school. We plan the funeral and attend the funeral because “it’s just what we’ve always done” based on some vague tradition that our hearts really aren’t into. I told my mum I'm not going due to multiple reasons and most of them are to do with the people there rather than the deceased. People will see you there and appreciate your effort, and it’ll cut down They’ll remember. I don't think it's disrespectful to not attend a funeral. I can honestly say that no funeral ever helped me Your mother, also, is supposed to be going to the funeral to support your dad. aqtb, rudcc, cg3u, 28uan, rjgof, wg8q, 3guf, gswkf, qc77qy, vrbwj,